I got pregnant, and everyone gave up on me, but I used these tips to blow the BECE and I believe they will be of good help to you.
The most difficult moment in the life of a young girl is getting pregnant while in school. As if that is not enough problem, to be rejected, insulted, and abused verbally by those you needed most when you got into this mess is even disheartening.
To be told, you are not going to be sponsored for Senior High School because that can shatter your dreams, but in my case, that only made me stronger.
I recall how I became used to this guy at school and will not give him breathing space after he proposed to me. Ever since then, I was all over the place and excited. In fact, he replaced my books and revision hours. I was only 15. If you ask me if we were in love those days, I will say yes, but looking back from now, I will say we were only childish, ignorant and on fire as a result of our individual infatuations.
One thing led to the other, my Headmistress got to know we were in a dating and warned us to stop it. All these advices of advice did me no good until one single affair one Saturday afternoon after extra class in their house got me pregnant. My parents were so disappointed because I was their only child, and they had plans for me, but the disgrace my pregnancy brought to them made them feel so bad that my father vowed not to take care of my education and suggested I get married to the boy and save him from investing in me. He however warned me never to try to about the baby.
Soon my story was the talk of time and in school. My mother told me, not to give up but rather, that I should go to school and complete the JHS. Since my school was a public school and the head teacher was kind and followed the laws, she permitted me to be in school and to prepare for the upcoming examination on the condition that, I will not have anything to do with my boyfriend.
I agreed and got settled to learn. The advice from the Headmistress and the female teachers gave me encouragement. I mapped up my own strategies to pass the BECE and I believe the strategies I will be sharing here will surely help you. You do not need to be in my condition some 10 years ago to implement them. Just believe in yourself and build momentum toward the 2022 BECE.
My teachers began to see an improvement in my performance and kept encouraging me. Before I knew it, It was a day to BECE. My father sat me down and apologized for all the comments he passed including not investing in my education.
This was good news to me because he said, if I can excel in the BECE, he will do everything to ensure, I make it to the highest level of my education.
That night, I prayed to God and ask for His grace.
After a week of tough questions at the BECE, the exam was over. The results were released and I made a shocking 6 ones. No one expected that kind of performance, although everyone knew I will pass.
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Unfortunately, I had to wait for one year, since I was still pregnant and in my seventh month. The next year, I gained admission into SHS to read Science.
You see, life throws challenges at us, but our attitudes and mindset will determine our altitudes.
My advice to the girls getting ready for BECE is to sit up. Avoid the temptations that come with boy–girl relationships and keep your focus. For the boys, please, keep your focus and study hard. Do not make life unpleasant for the girl you are eyeing and yourself.
BECE candidates are advised to tap into the tips to blow the BECE shared to improve their performance in mocks and the BECE final exam.
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