Key Tips In Marriage And Relationship: Understanding Maturity To Sustain Your Relationship.
Key Tips In Marriage And Relationship: Understanding Maturity To Sustain Your Relationship.
Each and everyone has his or her criteria to determine who should be their right or future partners. Some of the common choices people normally make is to determine how patience the other partner is, submissive, hardworking, ideas and intelligent, cooking abilities and more others.
We shall look into all those that we have said earlier. But our main focus is how to determine who is matured or immature in your relationship.
Maturity plays a pivot role in every successfully marriage or relationship. But most people base on their opinions and ideas seems to misunderstand or ignore maturity in their marriage or relationship. Whenever you underrated maturity in your relationship, it will be very difficult to survive in that relationship.
It is prudent for at least one person to be matured in the relationship to keep it going to the desire end.
Submissiveness, hardworking, humility.
Men in nature dislike women to be challenging and yelling at them.
Many women do say that they are not slaves to be humble and submissive. Meanwhile, this is the main requirement from them to men.
No wonder, some ladies in office who have men as their bosses are taking the men away from their wives. These all happen because the men feel respected in the office more than in the house where some wives try to be at the same pal with them.
Men hate challenge, nagging and arrogance. Even if they are wrong, find a more polite way to talk to them rather than trying to proof a point. Otherwise, you are likely to loose the love he has for you in the marriage or relationship and this has nothing to do with your families witches.
Learn this ladies and safe your relationship and marriage.
Mostly, the things statement above are the complains of men and guys about their partners which easily changes their minds of their wives or ladies.
Let us keep learning. patience and appreciation of every little thing and high expectations .*
The lady was never pleased after seeing the things. She never appreciated the gift from the guy. She thought of something higher which led to her disappointment. High expectations always lead to disappointments when not met.
Let us not be expecting so many high things from our partners.
Let us learn to appreciate the little things our partners do for us.
Let us also be patient and find out why our partners do certain things.
Let us not be too quick in making decisions especially when we knew very well that we are angry or disappointed. It can cause us something great . The lady caused herself in the relationship because the guy could think, she is a gold digger in the relationship.
Let us all keep learning.
MATURED PARTNER KEEPS THE MARRIAGE.
DO YOU KNOW?
Every marriage has an immature partner. It’s very rare to find a marriage that has two equally mature people. There’s always a partner in your marriage who’s immature.
*WHO IS THE IMMATURE PERSON IN YOUR MARRIAGE?*
1. That’s the one who is *quick to get angry.*
2. Who doesn’t *apologize easily.*
3. Who *acts before thinking.*
4. Who feels *entitled to everything.*
5. Who *thinks* they are *doing their partner a favour.*
6. Who thinks if the relationship ends they’d *meet a better person.* It could be the man or the woman.
7. Immature partner expresses that he/she is the one *anchoring* the *finances at home.*
8. Immature partner keeps malice after every *misunderstanding .
9. Immature husband abandons food due to misunderstanding while immature wife refuses to prepare a meals because of provocation.
10. Immature minds in marriage don’t *forgive and forget issues.
The immature partner always feels like he or she deserves what he or she has or even better. This feeling could come because he is handsome or because she’s beautiful because he or she is intelligent, because he or she has potential, or because he or she has vision, or because of arrogance and pride.
The immature partner is intelligent but doesn’t have enough common sense. He or she might be attractive but lacks a good sense of judgment. He or she is outspoken but *proud. That immature person is the one who always threatens to leave a relationship, because he or she feels there’s always a better person out there waiting for him or her.
But one thing people don’t understand is that the grass is not always greener on the other side. Some of them discovered this when it was already too late. But because they have a partner who serves as the shock absolver, they think the world belongs to them.maturity Because *the mature partner overlooks their excesses, you’d think they are mature.
It is only the mature partner that keeps the marriage together and going. It’s because of the mature person that the *relationship is beautiful. Take a moment and reflect: are you the immature person in your relationship? If you are the one, be grateful that you have someone who overlooks your excesses. You have *no idea what you have yet.
*Guide your heart and keep your home. There are always rewards for anyone that pays the prize of keeping the home. May God help everyone pay for the sacrifice.